My boyfriend is on dating websites.I need advice?

I saw my boyfriend of 2 and a half years looking at girls profiles on yahoo personals. he said he was just board but i did a little snooping and found a profile he just made. it says this ';im a guy that grew up in mpls and just got settled on my own. now looking for a girl that will go party and hold me at night. so if you think your the oe dont be shy.'; I am so hurt and angry, i man he's cheated on me before, and this seems so obvious as to what he is trying to do. What do i do? am i over reacting? a part of m eis afraid to confront him cause i found it by snooping but damn, it aint right is it? can i hear from men and women if possible, maybe get both sides?My boyfriend is on dating websites.I need advice?
I am not sure what your question is but the answer is pretty glaring, isnt it.





A person with a profile on anything, is shopping for anyone...other than the person they are with.





I am sorry, it hurts. I can relate and have been there.My boyfriend is on dating websites.I need advice?
LEAVE HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just because u love him doesn't mean u have to accept this, i think he is not giving you the respect you deserve.


But u r the only one how really know him, and if he cheat at u before its obvious that u didn't really trust him, and he is not making positive points to get your trust back, i know this is not what u want to hear, but the best thing is stop wasting your time and find someone how really loves and respect you.
I can't imagine that you'll get any answer to your question besides ';dump his sorry loser @ss!'; That's certainly my answer. He isn't worth the heartache.
if i werecin your shoes i would also start my own online dating! this will show him that he is not the only ones who knows how to do it... i heard this sort of saying a long time ago it says '; if he is hurting you then LEAVE him!!!!';
This is NOT right. Try to openly and honestly confront him on the issue. If he won't back down or get rid of his profile, then you need to get him out of your life. You deserve better than this guy who is trying to date other women behind your back, as casual as though it may seem.
and you're still with him why?
Afraid to confront him? He's cheating on you again and you know it. Get out of this relationship. You deserve a guy that will not cheat on you and respect you. This isn't going to be the last time he looks for somebody to party with either. How about you two are married with 3 kids and then he gets another girlfriend? Get out now. Give him his freedom and then you go find a guy that is good for you.
In my opinion, if you 100% sure that he's cheating on you then dump him because he cheated before so obviously he can do it again.


If he denied it or saying that ''he was just board''. Its obviously means that he's not been honest with you.


If you want to confront him then just say that ''you're not confortable of him doing that or looking at anything about other girls''. If he still love you then he'll definitely understand !!!


BUT remember you can always start a new relationship with someone else better!!!


Good luck !!!
Leave his a** - it's not worth it. Confront him with it, who cares if you snooped with something like that, he already knew you busted him looking.


He's keeping you around until something else comes along.


Get Out
It could be out of boredom or maybe he's lying. Best way to figure out is to make a fake profile, look him up and see how far he will go with you. If he falls for the bait then you know hes a liar and plannned on cheating
no harm in looking its when we act out our fantasies that can become serious ,he is only human with genuine curiosity.
I THINK YOU HAVE ALL THE DIRT YOU NEED.





CONFRONT HIM ABOUT IT. IF HE SAYS WHAT WERE YOU DOING SNOOPING. HES TRYING TO FLIP THE SCRIPT. YOU TELL HIM HE CHEATED BEFORE AND YOU CAUGHT HIM SEARCHING ON THE DATING SITE AND WHAT ELSE WOULD THAT LEAD YOU TO BELIEVE.





OR YOU COULD WAIT AND C WHAT HE WRITES THESE GIRLS AND GET HARD EVIDENCE. IF YOU GET HARD EVIDENCE OF HIM TRYING TO TALK ON THE PHONE OR MEET THEN YOU REALLY NEED TO LEAVE HIM.





BUT ME PERSONALLY HIM SAYING HES LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO CHILL WITH AND HOLD HIM MEANING HES GIVING SOME1 A CHANCE TO TRY TO MEET HIM.





I WOULD LEAVE HIM. GUYS COME AND GO. MOVE ON SISTER.
Sounds like he is keeping his options open at this point. Maybe he is not entirely happy in this relationship and is looking for what is out there. Either way you need to talk to him about it now that you know. Don't just sit and wait for the train to hit you. Good Luck.